Sarah & Ryan – Delightful Summer Dinner Party | Merrily Wed Tahoe Weddings

This light hearted and mood lifting wedding is the perfect pick-me-up during all these short winter days filled with dark, gloomy skies.  We have previously given a glimpse to this charming wedding with a video peek but have been saving this gem of a wedding to roll out when we needed a little reminder of those glorious sunny summer days.

This wedding is sure to put a smile on your face and a hop in your step with its gleaming color palette of white, pewter silver and fresh green.  The splashes of magenta modernize a traditional look and the outcome was breathtakingly sophisticated and tailored!

Last June Sarah and Ryan exchanged vows in a church ceremony and then treated their guests to a breathtaking Lake Tahoe view at a private estate for the following festivities.  Personalized touches were woven through out from the stick rock candy at the coffee bar to the individualized hand tied flip-flops to the color coordinated pashminas for the guests to, last but not least, the wildly popular and colossal photo board of the couple’s childhood years.

This slideshow is sure to cure any wintertime blues!

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Ceremony Spotlight | Merrily Wed Wedding Designer

It’s hard to miss the signs that this holiday season is in full swing – all the cocktail parties, sweet treats, festive decorations and, thankfully this year, lots and lots of snow in Tahoe.  I love this time of the year!  

This is also a spiritual time for many and a time to reflect upon their faith.  Along with each different faith, there are certain beliefs and traditions of which influence the couple’s wedding ceremony.  These ceremonies can differ as widely as a bride’s personal style but they have one common purpose of uniting two individuals.

This past summer Merrily Wed planned a wide variety of wedding ceremonies.  We had a Persian, a Jewish, a Catholic and a Buddhist ceremony all in the month of July alone!  Just like our couples, each of these ceremonies was very unique and we had a fabulous time making sure every detail was just right.  We would like to share some of the highlights with you!
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Dave Getzschman - MW Wedding

Persian Wedding Ceremony:

The Persian wedding ceremony is known as the aghd. During the aghd, the bride and groom are seated before a spread of traditional items, called the sofreh.  On the sofreh facing the bride and groom is a mirror, illuminated by candles on either side.  Many other items are placed onto the sofreh and each has its own symbolism with regard to prosperity that it may bring.  The married women in the family hold above the couple a canopy of fine fabric and grind two cones of sugar over their heads, to hope for a sweet life.

Unlike traditional western weddings where the bride and groom state “I Do,” the Persian tradition is more elaborate and entices the bride to agree to marry the groom. When the officiant asks for the bride’s hand on behalf of the groom, the bride does not speak at first; instead she remains silent, which represents the pursuit of the bride by the groom.  The third time that she is asked, the bride speaks up and gives the affirmative response of “baleh!” (yes).  The officiant then directs the question to the groom, who answers yes without hesitation.
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Keoki Flagg Photography - MW Wedding

Jewish Wedding Ceremony:

Before a Jewish wedding ceremony, the ketubah (marriage contract) is signed in the presence of two witnesses. The ketubah describes the husband’s responsibility to his wife: clothing, food, and marital relations.  This is often written as a manuscript and is framed and displayed in the couple’s home.

A traditional Jewish wedding ceremony takes place under a Chuppah – a wedding canopy.  The Chuppah symbolizes the new home being built by the couple when they become husband and wife.  It is traditional for the face of the bride to be veiled during part of the ceremony.  The veil is removed by the end of the ceremony, in a ritual called Badeken.

In the ceremony, “Seven Blessings” are recited by the Rabbi, or by honored members of the bridal party who are called up individually.  The groom holds a cup or glass of wine during these blessings, and drinks from it after each blessing.  At the end of the ceremony, the groom breaks a glass, crushing it with his right foot, and the guests shout “Mazel tov!” which means good luck.  After the ceremony it is custom to leave the bride and groom alone for 10-20 minutes, where the couple retreats to a private room.
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Kate Webber - MW Wedding

Catholic Wedding Ceremony:

Catholic weddings are very traditional, rarely straying from their original customs.  The ceremony consists of biblical readings, a sermon, the exchange of vows and rings followed by additional prayers.  A very important element of a Catholic wedding ceremony is the Sacrament of Matrimony, a public sign that the couple gives oneself totally to the other person.  Catholic weddings must be held in a church and are not allowed to be held outdoors, to be valid with the church.

The processional is a key aspect of the Catholic wedding ceremony.  This usually consists of altar servers, the priest, witnesses, bridesmaids and groomsmen.  The bride is traditionally led down the aisle by her father.

The priest blesses the rings, then the vows and rings are exchanged by the couple.  Couples having a Catholic ceremony can choose whether or not they desire to include Mass.  To conclude the ceremony, the priest gives a final blessing followed by announcing the couple for the first time.  The couple starts the recessional by walking back down the aisle together, followed by the bridal party.
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Lisa Leigh Photography - MW Wedding

Buddhist Wedding Ceremony:

There is no standardized Buddhist marriage ceremony; however wedding ceremonies can be Buddhist if they are centered on the main beliefs of Buddhism and include traditional Buddhist elements.  There are two main areas of beliefs to add to your ceremony to make it a Buddhist ceremony. 

First is the acknowledgement of the present moment, many of life’s special moments occur in the present.  Including the acknowledgement of the present in the ceremony is very traditional for a Buddhist wedding ceremony.  The second belief that should be a part of the ceremony is the feeling of interconnectedness. Ceremonies are intended to mark important events, allowing attendees to express their true feelings and share them with others is important to those attending a Buddhist ceremony.

Other traditional elements in the ceremony include having a short period of silence that allows all in attendance to have time to reflect on the wishes they have for the couple.  Another element is repeating a refuge or precept after the officiant.  The refuge or precept can be unique and re-written by the couple.  Adding poetry into the ceremony is another aspect of a Buddhist ceremony.  Lastly, having prayer flags around the ceremony is said to bring happiness, long life and prosperity to the flag planter and those in the vicinity.

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Although all of these ceremonies are different, they also have some similarities – a processional, vows are read and rings are exchanged which represent the vows.  The last and final common tradition is ending the ceremony by the groom kissing the bride.  What better way to ending a ceremony then by sealing it with a kiss?

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Lindsay & Kirk – Lakeside Soiree | Merrily Wed Wedding Style

Lindsay and Kirk tied the knot this past July at a private lakefront estate. With a wonderful mix of unique details, eye candy color and an easy-going style, this wedding celebration captured the look and feel that Lindsay envisioned and even more…

We loved the vibrant red touches of color that popped everywhere from the flowers to the flower girl sashes to the bubble water goblets to the glowing paper lanterns. It was a gorgeous vision turned reality!

The spectrum of reds mixed with gold, wine, yellow and amber were chosen by Lindsay to support her Buddhist themed wedding. We hung similarly colored prayer flags around the estate on which guests had written their prayers, poems or advice weeks ahead of time for the newlyweds to read on their wedding day. The result was astounding and an extremely personal wedding keepsake.

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Both ladies and men comprised the wedding party. What’s so different about that you ask? Well, a modern mix included Lindsay’s brother on her side and Kirk’s sister stood among the groomsmen. Not to mention adorable Ruby – their cherished pup – was also included as her parents exchanged their vows.

Another theme close to the couple’s hearts were birds and this was subtly visual throughout the wedding with branchy nest-like flower girls’ baskets, a custom giant nest from which the guests found their place cards, dining tables named rightly after Tahoe birds to the homespun cake toppers.

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Photography by the talented Lisa Leigh Photography and the stunning florals by Bellissima Floral Creations. We hope this wedding inspires you to make your wedding uniquely you too!

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Rustic Chic Wedding Style | Merrily Wed Lake Tahoe

Rustic Chic, Organic Posh, Natural Elegance, Outdoor Inspiration or whatever you like to call it, this is a popular wedding style found in Lake Tahoe as well as many scenic wedding locations.

With our experience in maximizing the aesthetic beauty of the Tahoe environment, Destination I Do Magazine turned to us for some professional tips in mastering this beautiful detail in destination weddings.

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They featured several different wedding looks in their Winter 2011 issue just launched today and Merrily Wed provided the know-how for the Rustic Chic style!

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Ginger & Brannan – Style Me Pretty | Merrily Wed Lake Tahoe

Ginger and Brannan’s blissful summer wedding was featured today on Style Me Pretty.  We first rolled out this July wedding in September with a colorful slide show blog post. This vibrant lake view Tahoe wedding is a real show shopper with its splashes of pink, purple and tangerine orange accented by colorful butterflies.  This is definitely a must see!

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Photos Courtesy of: Ben Chrisman